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6 Ways to Ease the Transition to a New Living Situation for Seniors

Apr 30, 2020 8:15:00 AM / Chris Harper Chris Harper

6 Ways to Ease the Transition to a New Living Situation for Seniors

Seniors — just like the rest of us — are creatures of habit. We all thrive on our routines, whether it’s our morning coffee with the news, a bedtime ritual, or spending time in the garden each day. Even the best new living situation for seniors disrupts established routines. New people, new furniture, and a new environment all require an adjustment period. Here’s how to help the senior you love adapt and thrive in a new living situation.

Don’t Take Away Control

If your loved one faces physical or cognitive challenges, you may worry about their ability to make good decisions, or even think you should make decisions for them. Many adult children report that it’s difficult to get their parents to listen. Your loved one still wants to live life on their terms, and physical decline isn’t going to change that. So don’t try to take over their life or make decisions on their behalf. Talk to them like an equal person whose feelings matter, and work with them to find a living situation that works for everyone.

Listen to Their Feelings

When you’re talking to your loved one about their senior living options, focusing on the positive can help them see things from a new perspective. That doesn’t mean you should ignore their emotions, or scold them for expressing sadness or frustration. Give your loved one an outlet for their emotions so that they don’t feel stuck in negative feelings. All human beings have a right to express themselves, so provide a compassionate ear and listen without judgment.

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Address Their Concerns

Even the best new living situation for seniors can present some challenges. Take your loved one’s concerns seriously, and find ways to meaningfully address them. If they’re concerned about not having enough space for their possessions, offer to rent a storage space. If they can’t stomach the idea of leaving behind their garden, help them transition to indoor gardening or invest in a plot at a community garden. Show your loved one that they can still live the life they love in a different home.

Help Them Pack

Moving can be a nightmare, even under the best circumstances. When you’re trying to downsize your entire life or are skeptical about your new living situation, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Don’t leave your loved one to do it all on their own. Help them pack. Start early, and make the process fun. Put on old family movies or share family stories. Reminisce about the heirlooms you find and remind your loved one that a change in their home does not mean that their relationships have to change.

Maintain Their Routines

Everyone has their own vision of an ideal day. In retirement, many seniors are able to make their dreams of the ideal day a reality. And so a disruption of their routine can be acutely painful. Find ways to help them maintain their routines. Ensure that they have their favorite coffee. Buy them a gift card for delivery from their favorite restaurant. Fill their new home with their most prized and familiar possessions. Your goal should be to make the new apartment feel like home.

Visit Often

Senior living can meet many of your loved one’s needs, but it’s not a substitute for loving family relationships. Particularly in the early weeks following a move to a senior living community, frequent visits can help ease the transition. As your loved one settles in, get involved in community life. Go to community events and celebrations to show your investment in your loved one’s new life and community.

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Topics: Tips for Moving

Chris Harper

Chris Harper

As the vice president of communications for The Arbor Company, Chris is responsible for digital marketing, public relations, technology and design.

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